You will have your own limits when it comes to how connected you want to be. The following resources might help you define your ideal relationship while clearly conveying your wishes to others.
The data shows that a man is only 22% less likely to respond to an older woman than a younger woman if she initiates contact. Let Me Tweet the Ways) What are some of the reasons for this?
Not all will appeal, but hopefully this will give you a better idea about what you might try.
Thinking through what ‘sex’ means can help you identify what you do/don’t want to experience. It could mean masturbation alone or with a partner. It could involve exploring fantasy/role play, fetish, BDSM, phone or text sex with someone else, writing a diary or blog, or filming/photographing yourself (which you may want to keep private or share).
Some who are into BDSM/kink, swinging etc organize general meet ups (sometimes called munches) where you can find out more before you try anything. Looking out for yourself One of the ways no-strings relationships are presented to women be they bi, straight or lesbian is they are inherently dangerous.
Stern warnings are given that a one night stand could easily end in an STI or being harmed by your partner.